10 Tips for Solo Travelers
By Gwenn Voelcker
1 — Adopt the right attitude: It starts here. You can do this, even if a spouse or partner took care of all the travel plans in the past. Solo travel can evoke powerful insights about yourself and your life. Many discover that they are more capable, wiser and self-reliant than they thought.
2 — Start small and close to home: Ease into solo travel by taking short overnight or weekend trips to nearby destinations to build your confidence.
3 — Follow your heart when choosing a destination: Let love be your guide. Do you love the beach? Cities? Nature? Food? Select a destination that aligns with your interests and desires. Ask yourself: What do I want to get out of my trip? Relaxation, adventure, cultural immersion, personal growth?
4 — Plan, plan, and plan (and budget!): I started planning for my Paris trip two years prior to take-off. I opened a Paris savings account into which I transferred $25 a week. Then, the research began — the fun part! I scoured the internet, purchased travel guides, talked with friends and delved into everything Parisian. Voila! My itinerary took shape and I booked my flight.
5 — Carefully select accommodations: While rentals can offer a more local experience, I recommend staying in hotels, preferably with an onsite café or courtyard (where you can connect with other travelers). Hotels provide added security, convenience and helpful services for solo travelers. I always let the front-desk staff know that I’m traveling alone and welcome their recommendations for dining, excursions and transportation.
6 — Keep safety a priority. Just as I do at home, I steer clear of unsafe areas, trust my instincts, and walk with confidence. In Paris, I dress to blend in and avoid looking like a tourist. I know I’m doing something right when other travelers mistake me for a local and ask for directions. There are safety tips galore on the web. Check ‘em out!
7 — Stay connected: Sharing your experiences with friends and family can enhance your solo adventure. It allows you to capture special moments and share your excitement. It also adds a layer of safety and peace of mind when others know of your whereabouts.
8 — Pack light and smart: I learned this lesson early on. Waiting at a baggage carousel or hauling a heavy bag through crowded streets was not how I wanted to spend my time in Paris. I bring a very small carry-on roller bag and a day tote for when I’m out and about. Rick Steves is my trusted travel guru. Find his packing tips on Ricksteves.com
9 — Explore and immerse yourself: Embrace the freedom of solo travel by trying new things. Immerse yourself in the local culture, try new foods and engage with locals. Join guided tours and activities to meet like-minded travelers.
I’ll never forget the midnight “rain or shine” bike tour I booked in Paris. As soon as the group assembled, the skies opened up. Disposable rain ponchos were quickly distributed and off we went in the pouring rain. It’s one of my fondest and wettest memories.
10 — And finally, importantly … pace yourself. Trying to see and do too much can be exhausting and unfulfilling. A more relaxed itinerary — focused on what matters most to you — enables you to appreciate your chosen activities and sites more deeply.
It will also leave room for spontaneity and personal reflection on your solo journey. This way, you’ll be able to savor each moment, create meaningful memories and return home feeling refreshed and inspired.